How Your Character Strengths Create Purpose, Contribution, and a Life That Matters
Character strengths are more than tools for success. They are pathways to meaning.
The Volunteer Who Never Reached Her Goal
“The real tension isn’t failure versus success. It’s measurement versus meaning.”
Susan had a dream. After she retired, she wanted to solve a problem she had cared about for years. She volunteered, organized events, attended meetings, recruited helpers, and poured countless hours into the cause.
Five years later, the problem still existed. The organization hadn’t grown as much as she hoped. The issue wasn’t resolved. The world hadn’t changed.
One evening, feeling discouraged, Susan sat down to reflect on the past few years, wondering if she had merely wasted her time. As she looked back, she noticed something she had overlooked.
A young volunteer she had mentored had become a leader.
Several families had received help during difficult times.
People remembered her encouragement, her optimism, and her ability to bring others together.
The problem wasn’t solved. But lives had been changed. That’s when Susan realized she had been measuring success with the wrong yardstick. She had focused on the size of her impact rather than the strengths she brought to the work.
And perhaps that is how many of us miss the meaning in our own lives. We often underestimate the impact of our strengths because we overestimate the importance of visible results.
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The Pursuit of Meaning
“Human beings, ineluctably, want meaning and purpose in life. The Meaningful Life consists in belonging to and serving something that you believe is bigger than the self.” ~ Dr. Martin Seligman
“The pursuit of happiness is not unique to humans,” writes Dr. Ryan Niemiec, “this is characteristic of all animals; it’s the pursuit of meaning that sets human beings apart.” And the pursuit of meaning is you participating in activities that connect you with something greater than yourself.
It is fulfilling to pursue activities that give you a sense of meaning, and finding more ways to engage in them can be a great way to boost well-being. So, where do you find such activities? Researcher Joel Vos, who studies the science of meaning, identified five main areas. [(3) Niemiec]
1) Materialism: meaning comes from your possessions, professional successes, finances, pets, leisure activities, health, and/or sports.
2) Self-growth: meaning comes from your resilience and ability to cope, your self-insight and self-acceptance, through creative self-expression, from self-reliance, reaching daily goals, and/or self-care.
3) Social: meaning comes from connections with family and friends, from belonging in a specific community, and/or contributing to society in various ways.
4) Transcendent: this is finding meaning through purpose in life, through personal growth and self-development, and/or from religion and spirituality.
5) Being here: seeing meaning in your own uniqueness and in your connections with others.
Types of Meaning
We get meaning through different ways. Two of the main ones, according to the research, are meaningful relationships and a meaningful occupation. For most of us, meaningful relationships are the easiest path. Meaning can come in three different types: Coherence, Significance, and Purpose [(2) Niemiec]
Coherence is how we think about meaning. It’s looking for patterns that help us make sense of things and make life more predictable.
Significance refers to the feelings we get regarding meaning. It’s the feeling that we matter and that our lives matter. It’s how we appreciate ourselves, others, and the world.
Purpose is how our behavior is tied to our outlook on meaning. It comes from having BIG goals and from working to reach them.
Roots of Meaning
Viktor Frankl, author of Man’s Search for Meaning, identified three main roots of meaning. And although Frankl’s work predates positive psychology and the definition of Character Strengths, it includes character strengths we can focus on. [(1) Niemiec]
Bravery/courage toward life’s difficulties.
Bravery and courage give us the capacity to help others in spite of perceived risks and difficulties.
Appreciation of beauty and excellence.
When you draw on the strength of appreciating beauty and excellence, you enrich your overall well-being and bring more joy and mindfulness to your everyday experiences.
Creativity and kindness.
This combines the two strengths. Creativity is finding new ways to contribute to your own life and to others. Kindness comes from helping others without expecting any personal gain. When you combine the two, you find novel ways to be kind to others and find joy in doing so.
Measurement Versus Meaning
Susan measured her success by the size of the outcome:
Was the problem solved?
Did the organization grow?
Did she change the world?
But the strengths perspective asks a different set of questions:
Did she use her strengths?
Did she serve others?
Did she contribute?
Did she become more fully herself?
Susan thought she had failed because she was measuring outcomes. But then she changed her perspective from “Did I accomplish everything I hoped?” to “Did I bring my best qualities to something that mattered?”
That’s where Signature Strengths enter the picture. Character strengths are not just tools for achieving goals. They are pathways to meaning.
Susan initially evaluated her life through measurement:
How many people?
How much growth?
How much change?
But what she eventually discovered was mattering:
A young volunteer became a leader. Families received help. People felt encouraged. Lives were touched.
Susan realized that what she did mattered.
Putting Meaning Into Action
Finding meaning isn’t usually about making a dramatic life change. More often, it’s about paying closer attention to what is already meaningful.
Here are a few ways to begin. [Greenberg]
Identify Your Values
Meaning grows where values and actions intersect. Think about what matters most to you. Family? Faith? Learning? Service? Creativity? Health? Friendship? Now ask yourself:
How much of my time and energy is currently devoted to those things?
It’s easy to drift away from our values without realizing it. We get busy. Obligations pile up. Urgent matters crowd out important ones.
One of the simplest ways to increase meaning is to redirect a little more of your attention toward what you already know matters most.
Notice the Difference You’ve Made
Many of us overlook our contributions because they don’t seem dramatic. Susan almost missed hers. Take a few minutes and make a list of ways your efforts have benefited others. Include the obvious things:
projects completed
goals achieved
problems solved
But also include the quieter contributions:
people you’ve encouraged
lessons you’ve taught
kindnesses you’ve offered
friendships you’ve maintained
family members you’ve supported
You may discover that your impact is larger than you thought.
Look for Meaningful Moments
We often imagine meaning arrives in grand experiences. In reality, it frequently appears in ordinary moments.
A meaningful conversation.
A child learning something new.
A friend who feels heard.
A moment of gratitude.
A problem solved.
A quiet act of service.
Meaning is often easier to recognize looking backward than looking forward. At the end of the day, ask:
What moment today felt most meaningful?
You may begin to notice patterns.
Find Your Purpose Amplifiers
Researchers have found that certain activities consistently increase our sense of meaning. Think of these as your personal “purpose amplifiers.”
For one person, it may be teaching. For another, volunteering. For someone else, prayer, mentoring, creating, learning, or spending time with family.
Ask yourself: What activities leave me feeling that my time was well spent? Those are clues. When you discover your purpose amplifiers, schedule them intentionally. Don’t wait for them to happen by accident.
This week, take ten minutes and reflect on one simple question: Where have my strengths made a difference in someone else’s life?
Write down every example you can think of. Big or small. Then choose one way to intentionally use one of your Signature Strengths in service of someone else this week.
You may discover that meaning isn’t something you have to find. It may already be waiting in the strengths you use every day.
The Meaning Hidden in Your Strengths
Susan never solved the problem she set out to solve. At least not completely.
The organization didn’t grow as much as she hoped. The challenge still existed. The world remained imperfect. But Susan’s story wasn’t really about failure. It was about perspective.
For years, she measured success by outcomes. Then she began measuring meaning.
She saw the people she had encouraged. The leaders she had helped develop. The families she had served. The lives she had touched. And she realized something important: Her strengths had been making a difference all along.
Perhaps the same is true for you. Many of us spend our lives looking for meaning somewhere out in the distance, waiting for a major accomplishment, a breakthrough achievement, or some grand purpose to reveal itself. But meaning is often much closer than that. It is found whenever we bring our best qualities to something that matters. Whenever we use our strengths in service of others. Whenever we contribute, connect, create, encourage, learn, teach, or love.
Character strengths are more than tools for success. They are pathways to meaning. And meaning is one of the surest paths to your Excelerated Life™!
Which of your character strengths seems to contribute most to the lives of others?
What is one activity that consistently leaves you feeling that your time was well spent?
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Resources:
Greenberg, Sarah. “The Importance of Living a Purpose-Driven Life.” Website Title. Meaning. VIA Institute On Character,. Web. May 30, 2026.
https://www.viacharacter.org/topics/articles/the-importance-of-living-a-purpose-driven-life
(1) Niemiec, PhD., Ryan. “How To Build Meaning Into Your Life.” Website Title. Meaning. VIA Institute On Character,. Web. May 30, 2026.
https://www.viacharacter.org/topics/articles/how-to-build-meaning-into-your-life
(2) Niemiec, PhD., Ryan. “How To Make Your Life More Meaningful.” Website Title. Meaning. VIA Institute On Character,. Web. May 30, 2026.
https://www.viacharacter.org/topics/articles/how-to-make-your-life-more-meaningful
(3) Niemiec, PhD., Ryan. “Where Do You Look to Find Your Purpose?” Website Title. Meaning. VIA Institute On Character,. Web. May 30, 2026.
https://www.viacharacter.org/topics/articles/where-do-you-look-to-find-your-purpose
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